Is this a good relationship?

herr's my input from the outside you need to get rid of him because he is your problem. if you had a problem before he moved in you have a bigger one now. this is what happens when you are being abused. if you don't realize it you are being abused. you love him so much until you feel like you hate him sometimes and you don't know what to do and he won't have anywhere else to go......please from the way you are talking about him why would you care. if you put him out you will feel better. and you and your son can get back on the right track. i maybe could deal with him for myself but when he begins to yell at my child he's got to go. if he don't have any where to go is not your problem. he's a grown man and should have some where to go, shame on him for being too lazy or whatever to provide for himself to have some where to live. the way he is acting maybe why he has no where else to go or that nobody else wants to be bothered with him. you have to save yourself for your son and yourself, if you are depressed you can get help and go back to feeling good about your self, you owe this to your son and yourself and nobody else. you need to let this clown go on about his business so you can live again. you can have a good job and be strong again but not with this loser that has invaded your home. i knew he was the problem as soon as you mentioned him. you need to get RID of him so you can have a peace of mind again. you can do bad by yourself, you don't need help to do bad from the likes of him. you need help, and not his kind of help. if you keep messing with him you could lose your son, and you don't want that. don't be afraid just ask God to guide you and to help you to get rid of that jerk you have living with you, if he don't go then get the law involved, he'll go then. i wish you the best.